About In a Wave
More context. Less certainty theater.
Relationship feelings can shift alongside stress, sleep, health, conflict, desire, and physical symptoms. A tracker can help you notice timing. It cannot tell you why a feeling happened—or what choice to make.
What this is for
In a Wave captures small, contemporaneous snapshots so memory does not have to reconstruct every hard day later. It keeps relationship dimensions separate from general desire, mood, and physical symptoms because those experiences can move differently.
What this refuses to do
It does not diagnose perimenopause, label a relationship healthy or unhealthy, minimize a feeling as “just hormones,” or advise anyone to stay or leave. Pattern language is deliberately cautious and based only on the information you enter.
Built around consent
Partner Mode starts with nothing selected when the app loads. You choose a current need, optionally add a short message, and intentionally share a link. The link contains only that card in its fragment—the part browsers do not send to the web server. Anyone with the full link can read or forward it; it has no expiry or revocation.